Not so nice. It reminds me of when Ferdinand and I get really mad at each other about something and the only thing I can think of is to say “Ferd, we are stuck and we have got to change the direction.” We either hit the “love” button on a stuffed lion that he has which starts the tune “I love you babe” going which gets anybody’s head bobbing and automatically feeling more relaxed, or if that doesn’t work, we walk around the block.

It’s all about distraction.

Try a teeny tiny plate of it. This is a Jamie Oliver classic: seedless red grapes, slivers of ricotta salata and fresh tarragon leaves. Toss it together with a pinch of salt, half a grind of black pepper, and a few drops of your best olive oil.